Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Why "Not Just a Tree"


Some of you might ask: how did you come up with “NotJustATree” for the name of your blog. As many of my friends know, I went back and forth for quite some time.  Possible blog names included: “Nepal SoHard, CosNepalital, NepaleonDyanamite” along with countless others that I’d love to forget.  Ultimately I got two pieces of advice “Avoid a play on words those are annoying” and “Don’t ask people, find something that is meaningful to you”  As I took time to reflect on quotes and words of wisdom I’ve gleaned from the past 25 years a quote from Jim Rohn sticks out:

If you don’t like how things are, change it!  You’re not a tree” – Jim Rohn

For those of you who don’t know about my fellowship please visit http://blinknow.org/kopila-fellows/.  Other than quickly noting that Maggie is a much better blogger than me, hopefully you’ll also get a feel for what it is I’ll be doing and Nepal and what I hope to achieve.  When putting together my application two themes quickly emerged, however, both involved a change.  Prior to pointing out these changes, I will quickly mention that I don’t dislike how things are.  On the contrary, I love my life, my family and my friends.  That being said, I think this change will be good for the Kopila Valley family and myself.  

The first and most important change is in the lives of the children I’ll be going to help out with over the next six to seven months.  My number one goal is to influence positive change while living with the Kopila Valley Family.  I think the steps I’ve taken thus far in life put me in a good position to help out in an impactful way.  Further I find seeing others succeed and overcome challenges extremely satisfying;  I can’t help but think that playing a positive role in the lives of the people in Surkhet would make me unbelievably happy. I love being with people at their highest highs and helping them through their lowest lows. I can only hope that this passion to help others and see them succeed will give me the energy to wake up every morning and make a positive contribution to Kopila Valley. 

The second change, is much more selfish, however, likely inevitable as I set out on this journey.  Not only do I hope to help the individuals in Nepal, I hope they can help me broaden my horizons and see the world from another set of eyes.  As we all know clichés become clichés for a reason and in this case I think I think the expression “change can be a wonderful thing” is very fitting.  My younger sister has told me a few times that I tend to come off a bit too dramatic!  That being said, although it will only be for 6-7 months I will miss my friends and family immensely.  I’ve been blessed with a tremendous family, a great group of HS and College Friends, and an equally impressive group of friends during my time in DC.  I will miss them, and I will miss my very comfortable life, however, ultimately I think this experience will cause me to be changed for the better.  To come full circle…I’m not just a tree so it’s time for me to do something!

Welcome!



Hi, my Name is John Christopher.  I am 25 years old and currently living and working in Washington, DC. In September I will be giving up my job and flying half way around the world to Surket, Nepal, to begin a 6 month fellowship with the Kopila Valley Children’s Home and School.  I’d like to take a moment of your time to tell you how I got here and why I made the decision to leave my comfortable life behind and move to the third world, while telling you how you can help! 

I first learned about Kopila Valley through some of my best friends who went to high school with Maggie Doyne, the founder of Kopila Valley Children’s Home and School.  After hearing Maggie’s story at a Fourth of July celebration 5 years ago, I was immediately amazed and impressed that someone my age could be making such an impact in the world.  It was that day when I became an ardent supporter of her cause and a regular reader of her blog: http://blinknow.org/. After years of following her posts, and “wishing” I could make a difference, the opportunity of a lifetime came knocking, when Maggie created the Kopila Valley Fellows program.  Immediately after reading about the fellowship, I knew that it was time to scratch the itch I’ve had for so many years and take a leap.  One particular position stood out; the “extra-curricular fellow.”  After reading the job description, and hearing how greatly in need Kopila Valley was to have someone spearhead these initiatives I was sold.  This opportunity would give me the ability to help bring to others what I’ve taken for granted for so long. 

Prior to my time in DC I attended college at Washington and Lee University in Lexington, Virginia and high school at Cardinal Gibbons in Fort Lauderdale, Florida.  During those 8 years, athletics and club activities were very important to me and I sought to be involved as much as possible.  I’ve had the opportunity to wrestle at the collegiate level, play football in high school, serve in student government, play the saxophone, and serve as a mentor, along with countless other extracurricular activities.  These pursuits helped me develop as a person and become more than just a one-dimensional adult.  I learned the importance of communication, team work, dedication, time management, and self-discipline, which have translated seamlessly to the work world. I attribute much of my current achievements to the lessons I learned both in and outside of the classroom.

I love my life in DC.  I’ve been blessed with wonderful friends and a fantastic job.  In no way am I unhappy here, rather I saw this fellowship as an unbelievable opportunity to potentially make a difference in the lives of people who may not have been as privileged as me.  As the first person to receive this fellowship I am not quite sure what exactly to expect.  My goal however, is to help Maggie and the rest of the Kopila Valley Staff further the development of these children outside of the classroom.  From what I’ve learned, many of these children don’t have an outlet besides school and home.  Whether they are walking miles to and from school, or coming directly from the orphanage, I hope the outlet that they might gain from involvement in extracurricular activities can help provide a connection with their peers and place where they will feel support.

The goal of this fundraiser is to raise funds to help build the Extracurricular Program at Kopila Valley and ensure its sustainability so that others may follow as leaders of the program, long after I have left.  As the first fellow, there is very little infrastructure in place for what I will be doing. I am hoping to use the proceeds to implement a program that will be successful for many years to come.  The money raised will go directly to funding these initiatives and I will work closely with Maggie to make sure the money is being spent in a prudent and impactful fashion.  Although, there is still a great deal of time and energy that needs to be spent thinking about and developing this program, I hope by the end of my term that the foundation will be set to thrive for many, many years.   My ultimate goal is to begin creating an Extra-Curricular Program that will provide the same outlet and positive escape so many of us, including myself, were blessed with growing up.

Additionally, you will be able to see directly how your money is going to use on my blog: http://notjustatree.blogspot.com.  My expectation is to post pictures of our progress, and describe the steps being made to develop a successful program.  Whether purchasing new soccer balls to further the athletic program, or buying recorders to foster the music program, I will keep donors and followers abreast of our headway.  Further, you will have the ability to communicate with me via the comment box on my blog entries, and suggestions will be gladly considered.  This is YOUR money, so any creative or thoughtful ideals will be met with open arms.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story!  I am both anxious and excited to get this adventure underway, and appreciate all of your support.

-John

PS

The following two paragraphs come directly from http://blinknow.org/kopila-fellows/ and should provide some insight into the organization and the program.

About The Fellows Program
The Kopila Fellows program is designed to bring remarkable people from around the world to be part of our community in Surkhet, Nepal. We seek positive, fun, extraordinary thinkers and doers who will help inspire and nurture the children, staff, and faculty of our ever-growing home and school.

About The Extra Curricular Fellowship
The Extra Curricular Fellow is focused on the education of the whole child.  You are fun, energetic, and enthusiastic with knowledge of basic athletics, especially soccer. You are focused on the importance of teamwork, integrity and moral development. You have experience in coaching, team-building, and leadership. Experience or ability in art, drama, and music is a plus. You work with students on computer skill-building, regular classroom instruction support and small group tutoring support. You oversee our monthly school-wide theme, work with the vice-principal and principal to plan and implement weekly/monthly student programs and work with our Houses (four unique student groups with their own leader and identity) developing team-building exercises and supporting student social/emotional growth. You are a clear communicator and work well as part of a team at the Home and School. You may be called upon to help run things in the home and or school mornings, weekends, and late at night, and you are okay with that. You love what you do.